Domination Sessions
Mistress is well versed in a wide range of fetishes and BDSM activities as listed below. If you have a particular fetish or fantasy (outside this list), email Mistress the details and She will inform you whether She likes it or not. Note that Mistress NEVER engages in activities which She doesn't enjoy. Still Mistress has a free-flowing kinky development Herself, so Her tastes vary with time. What She may be into this season could become dull in a year and leave Her repertoire while new games might be invented. When in doubt, Mistress is only an email away.
Kink Coaching
Whether you’re a kink newbie or BDSM veteran, your fetish desires can affect the rest of your life. The games we play often expand past the dungeon and can open up a world of questions about who we are, the nature of our games, and why do we love them so much.
Kalyss Mercury not only teaches you the basic skills of kink, such as spanking, and impact play, but also how to connect deeper with your partner(s) and navigate through the psycho-emotional journey of kink awakening.
Online Training
If you cannot meet Ms Kalyss Mercury in the flesh, you have a few options for connecting with Mistress from a distance.
1) Personalised Video Sessions: The top option is to expand your kink training via online video sessions. These sessions vary depending on where you are in your kink journey and what your intentions are.
2) Video Guides: GAIP & GAET (TM)
3) ONLYFANS
Unleash your Dark Desires
What erotic dreams keep you up at night?
Does the thought of losing control turn you on?
Where are you in your journey of Kink Exploration?
Through 20+ years of BDSM training at multiple domination houses, kink workshops, and private coaching, Kalyss Mercury has developed a vast repertoire of BDSM and fetish skills. But the Kink journey never ends, so she is always learning more in order to offer you a smorgasbord of fetish delights.
Mistress NEVER engages in activities which She doesn't enjoy. So you can be sure that if she accepts your request for play, it will be an authentic interaction.
What are your fetish interests? What are your boundaries? How deep do you dare to explore?
Loves All - Tops All
Surrender is an intimate act of trust. Domination is an act of fierce love and caring.
All humans deserve the gift of submission, of being small, innocent and vulnerable, while still feeling safe and cared for. It is my calling to craft and hold that safe space. The space where you can release your armour and be seen in all your shades, in all your kinks, in all parts of you. It doesn't matter if you're a young newbie or old and wise; gay, straight, or queer; male, female,or undefined; skinny, muscly or overweight. As long as you can communicate, respect my rules and follow my instructions, humans of all nationalities, shapes, and identities are welcome at the end of my leash.
In the dance of dominance & submission, the polarities need each other. The top cannot guide, if the bottom does not follow- it takes two to tango. In my long and kinky journey of self discovery, I keep being surprised by how unique and precious we all are. As a switch, I know and feel the value of surrender, to be able to let go of our masks, our responsibility to "normal" life, of the control we (think we) need to survive in this crazy world.
Surrendering feels so good! All at once it is exciting, scary, horny, relaxing and blissful. So many paradoxes happening in one experience. And it is so rare an occasion when we allow ourselves to let it go, when we trust another with our bodies and our emotions.
So, if my words and images resonate with you, if they inspire your trust and desire to surrender, I invite you to boldly start (or continue) your kink journey under my guidance.
Let me take you on the ride of your life!
Fortune Favours The Bold
Using Kink to Find your Inner Viking
Kink, fetishes, and BDSM are taboos. Usually, taboos are scary and shameful. Our forbidden desires hide in the shadows of our minds. We may push them underground, into the closet, resisting temptation. But what we resist, often persists.
It takes courage to accept our kinks, our fetishes, our taboos. But like facing any fear, the process is deeply transformative - one could even say magical! You'd be surprised how kink can be more pleasurable than our fearful minds imagine.You might also feel relief after that fantasy is played out. "What was I so scared of?!" And most importantly, boldness grows with practice. Face one fear, the next will be easier. And that applies for any fear- in and out of the dungeon.
This is why surrendering can be empowering. Looking at your desires and boundaries, and expressing them in a safe, non-judgemental space. Matching your interests and planning a session with your dominant. Facing your fears in the first contact. Maintaining connection with your deeper self, to express your boundaries during play. These are all brave steps, each one polishing your courage.By the end of the session, you may feel relief, surprise, amazement, and even bliss!
If it seems weird that choosing to surrender can enhance your brave, warrior-like qualities, don't worry. In kink, many polarities are paradoxical. Contrasting thoughts and feelings can inhabit a blurry grey spectrum, rather than one black and white division. Like pleasure and pain, masculine and feminine, and, as the saying goes "one must be cruel to be kind." If you want to expand into kink, it's good to get used to exploring the nuances of polarities. Enjoy the mystery, and fluidity and see what can be learned from all those shades of grey.
“ I invite you to look into your dark desires. Which fears do you have to face in order to live out your dreams? Write them down, dissect each fear separately, and tackle them one at a time. Even before you have a session you might already open up to some enlightening insights. And when you're ready for your next step, you can call upon your Viking Goddess. Got a fantasy that's too scary to dissect alone? A video/phone kink coaching session is ideal for that. Share all your naughty fantasies with me. I’ll guide you past the fear and the shame and into the BLISS of your kinky desires. Are you ready to take this courageous step in your Kink Exploration Journey?” -Kalyss Mercury